This question has been asked thousands of times, yet we all struggle to put the best answers into practice. They say, “practice makes perfect”, so I thought I’d share my thoughts and ask for yours so we can all get better at being more loving. After all, “love makes the world go ‘round!”
I’ll start the conversation…
Love is in the Little Things
* Love isn’t about how big a party you can throw for someone on a special occasion; it’s about the little things you do for them when there’s no special occasion.
* Love isn’t about about how you can show your affection when there are people watching; it’s about the things you say and do when no one is watching.
* Love isn’t about how big a present you can buy someone; it’s about how you can make someone feel big by being truly present.
* Love isn’t about getting someone their favorite kind of ice cream at the grocery store (ok, maybe it is ;-)).
…it’s about finding a way to be patient, with all the little things that try your patience.
…it’s about really listening, even when you think you know what they’re going to say, or you’ve already heard the story.
…it’s about pausing before you speak so the angry words are heard by you only and the words that come out are more thoughtful.
…it’s about offering a sincere apology when those angry words do come out – and they will – and doing so without having to be asked.
…it’s about being there
…it’s about being able to dig deep and do something loving even when your relationship seems like it’s in deep trouble.
…it’s about letting go of the little things that bother you, and bothering to do the little loving things.
I know that there’s much more than I’ve described, so please join the conversation and share your thoughts below! The more ideas we have, the more we’ll all learn.
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True Love vs Valentine’s Day ..
is finding someone who helps you to become better than you are, someone
who could stand the un-bearable you.. how it feels beautiful when ur
presence & absence means something to someone .. that someone could
be your mom, dad, your friend or even he could be your little brother or
sister .. bcoz Allah send him to bring out the best in you ..
so this person is ( a reason ) that you never expect & may be you’re ( a reason ) for somebody else ..who knows ?
it looks like this journey never ends .. bcoz Allah has a bigger plan
for us than we had for ourselves .. we meant those things in our life
that seem to us unbelievable or so impossible to happen, but in end it
just happens !!
& we find out that it happened for an extra-amazing reason
So love is a gift , amazing feeling & it’ll be pathetic if u
expressed that feeling in a wrong haram way .. it’ll lose its beauty
& value ..
That’s why our parents taught us to appreciate
the value of things & not the price, to know the inspirational
creative side of persons around us ..
When u grow up ,ur family
will trust ur ability to lead ur life, at that moment u should use
“pride” to face the world & u should have “red lines” that others
can’t cross ..
May be sometimes we lose persons around us or we
ruin chances given for us but never say “it’s too late” bocz ur life is
full of amazing events as long as u r breathing ..
nothing in this world can’t be fixed as long as u r breathing ..
so cherish ur life moments in a beautiful halal way
to stay happy ..
Always remember that our life is not written by scriptwriters ,it’s
written by Allah & he is the one who knows the better for u ..
” If someone seriously wants to be a part of your life,
he will seriously make an effort to be in it ”
إذا أحببت شخصاً فلا تعصي الله من أجله
فقلبُ من أحببت بيدِ من عصيت
That’s what we’ve learned about love ..
NOT “valentine’s day” or whatever they called it !!
NOT in the red color or red roses !!
coz love have different colors that we paint together with our families & persons we love.
So just say alhamdulillah for everything coz
our life is full of miracles.
Love is finally understanding why you were hurt by parents who never knew better and realising it made you the stong person you are today through the sorting and sifting and the bunps on the road and letting go of anger. How free I feel today . 🙂
GOD is LOVE….trust in him enough to know what ever you ask shall be given.
Have faith and trust in GOD and your life will be full of joy and love.
Love can hurt when you miss someone so much and yet isn’t always there when they are with you! Love is beyond our emotions and beyond our control.
Love is a million little things. Love is what survives after the lust has subsided. Love is making a special meal, just because, Love is always being with your best friend and soul-mate.
Love is saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Love is not just saying I love you but showing I love you. Love is taking care of yourself and being kind to you. Love is not trying to change anyone else. Love is wanting to be and do better in all ways. Love is accepting. Love is being true to yourself. Love allows you to be you in all that you do.
have you loved???…have you done such??? plus or minus…i did…i do…i am